refactor(ffmpeg): share the ffmpeg stdin write and cleanup between fetch paths

[Rushaway]

Summary

• The curl_cffi and aiohttp streaming paths each inlined their own chunk write to ffmpeg stdin, and carried a byte-identical stdin close()/wait_closed() cleanup block (three duplicated blocks in total).
• Extracted _write_to_ffmpeg() and _close_ffmpeg_stdin() and used them from both paths.
• Small hardening: the aiohttp path now also skips writes while stdin is closing, a guard the curl_cffi path already had.

What I deliberately did not do, and why

The issue asked to "unify into one fetch abstraction with a pluggable transport wrapped by a single shared retry policy." I don't think that's the right change to ship blind, and here's the reasoning:

The two transports aren't gratuitous duplication. curl_cffi is there for impersonate="chrome120" — TLS fingerprint impersonation, which is precisely what gets past Cloudflare and which aiohttp fundamentally cannot do. aiohttp gives async-native streaming plus retry/Range resume and SOCKS support. They're different capabilities that happen to both end in "write bytes to ffmpeg" — and that ending is exactly the part I extracted.

The retry inconsistency is real, but fixing it properly is its own job. Naive retry on the curl_cffi path would restart the stream from byte 0 mid-playback (audible repetition); doing it right needs Range resume tracking across a thread boundary. And none of it is verifiable here — no live voice server, no real Cloudflare-protected source. This is the audio hot path; an unverified rewrite of it fails in production rather than in review. Tracked in #169 with the specifics, for someone who can test it end to end.

Happy to go further if you'd rather, but I didn't want to hand you a large, untested rewrite of streaming under a "refactor" label.

Closes #150

Test plan

Exercised both extracted helpers with stubs:

• Writes forwarded to stdin in order.
• Write skipped when stdin is_closing().
• No crash when ffmpeg_process is None (both helpers).
• _close_ffmpeg_stdin() closes stdin; no crash with no process.
• All modules compile.

Note: #167 and #168 also touch FFmpegAudioPlayer, so whichever lands later needs a rebase.

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[Rushaway]

Self-review: this is the PR where I deliberately did less than the issue asked. The full transport abstraction would be a big rewrite of the audio hot path that I cannot test here (no live voice server, no real Cloudflare source), and the retry parity needs Range-resume across a thread boundary to avoid restarting playback from byte 0. I extracted the part that is genuinely duplicated and verifiable, and split the rest to #169 with the reasoning written down. Push back if you would rather I attempt the full unification.

[Dolly132]

Can't say no to reusable code, so LGTM