Allow all known driver options to be passed on connection creation

[eaguad1337]

Migrated from MasoniteFramework/orm#965 (original author: @circulon) as part of the move to the masonitedev organization. Ported, evaluated, and hardened for 3.x.

What this does

Connection classes previously cherry-picked a hardcoded subset of the options config dict and silently dropped everything else. They now partition options so every known driver argument is honored and the rest is passed through in the driver's native mechanism — especially useful for Postgres connections needing advanced details like timeouts:

• Postgres: keys that are valid psycopg2.connect() kwargs (sslmode, connect_timeout, keepalives*, application_name, …) pass through directly; all remaining keys are treated as PostgreSQL GUC parameters and appended to the options string as -c key=value (alongside the schema search_path, which an explicit search_path option can now override).
• SQLite: keys that are valid sqlite3.connect() kwargs (timeout, isolation_level, check_same_thread, …) pass through; remaining keys are applied as PRAGMA key = value after connecting (e.g. journal_mode: WAL).
• MSSQL: known options keep their canonical ODBC mapping; extra keys are appended verbatim as Key=Value pairs in the pyodbc connection string (e.g. Encrypt, TrustServerCertificate).
• MySQL: already passed **options straight into pymysql.connect(), so it only gets the unified port normalization.

Hardening added on top of the original PR

1. Dropped async from the psycopg2 pass-through whitelist — an asynchronous connection cannot be used by this synchronous ORM; allowing it would produce confusing breakage at query time.
2. SQLite PRAGMA keys are validated as identifiers before being interpolated into the PRAGMA statement, so typos and malformed keys fail loudly at connect time instead of producing broken SQL.
3. MSSQL omits the port from the SERVER= segment when not configured, instead of emitting SERVER=host,None.
4. Added unit tests for the option partitioning of Postgres/SQLite/MSSQL (the original PR shipped without tests), including PRAGMA application against a real in-memory SQLite connection.

Tests

Full suite: 1045 passed, 1 pre-existing failure (requires a live Postgres server — fails identically on 3.x).