[release/10.0] Fix deletion of entities with non-empty complex collection

[AndriySvyryd]

Fixes #37373
Port of #37377

Description

EF added support for complex collections in 10, but the update pipeline contains an access pattern that's invalid for deleted entities.

Customer impact

When deleting an entity with a non-empty complex collection, an exception is thrown. A workaround is to clear the complex collections for any deleted entity.

How found

Multiple customer reports on EF 10.0.0

Regression

No, complex collections were introduced in EF 10.

Testing

Tests added

Risk

Low. Quirk added.

[A-Stapleton]

@AndriySvyryd When you say a workaround is to clear the complex collections do you mean clear it and persist changes then in a separate operation delete the parent or just explicitly clear it?

[AndriySvyryd]

@AndriySvyryd When you say a workaround is to clear the complex collections do you mean clear it and persist changes then in a separate operation delete the parent or just explicitly clear it?

Just clear them on any entity being deleted, in the same SaveChanges