More Raid tool options

[RedAces]

What does this PR do?

• Add the ability to disable each pull timer (set it to zero)
• Add checkboxes to disable the "role check", "convert to raid" and "disband" buttons

Screenshot

How was it tested?

Tested on 12.0.7 retail
NOT tested on 12.1 PTR

Checklist

• New settings default OFF (no behavior change without opt-in)
• these new settings default to ON because thats the previous state
• Zero cost while disabled: no events registered, no polling, no hooks doing work, no frames built
• Cheap while enabled: event-driven (no polling, no timer-based logic, no per-frame allocations)
• No writes onto Blizzard-owned frames (weak-table pattern used); HookScript/hooksecurefunc only, never SetScript on Blizzard frames
• Tested in-game, works on live retail; no load errors on the 12.1 PTR client

[RedAces]

Added: hide the raid tools frame if youre in raid and are neither a Leader or Raid Assistant